Convincing someone can be one of the most difficult thing to do depending on your relationship with him/her. However, it gets worst when you don’t know the person at all. However, I will be sharing with you tricks that really works with getting people to do whatever you want.
Note that Nobody enjoys being tricked. And so, please do not use what your learn here for your own selfish reasons or evil purpose. What you are going to learn here is more about developing a platform where the odds of an event is high enough to favor you and whoever you’re trying to manipulate will be happier and enjoy themselves more.
So let’s go into more details on How to get people to do whatever you want easily with the following tricks
#1 Try to Engage in Helping out first
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- If you meet him or her facing an initial challenge try handling it together as a team. So what do I mean?. Let’s look at this example, you want to have a talk with a friend about helping you out with something, and you met your friend washing his/her car at that moment, start by asking if there is anyway you could be of help, before presenting your problem. help out If there is, do it with them and it can become a bonding experience. later, because it brought you both closer together.
#2. Use guilt to your advantage.
This trick works very well and I will tell you why. Most people feel uncomfortable repeatedly denying the same person. In other words, if someone declines a request, and then you approach them later with a different request, they are more likely to agree to your request, possibly because of some feelings of guilt or feeling that they let you down the first time.
#3. Use a Hand written note.
In an era of electronic communication platforms, a hand written note has a trick it plays on the mind of whomever you are seeking help from. It shows how serious the problem that needs to be solve is, and shows a great level of respect to the person your write to. Imagine putting up the stress of writing and as well paying to get it delivered.
This speaks to the importance of the personal touch. A handwritten note is important, especially in the current era where so much communication tends to be electronic.”
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